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Why child fail or lie -'confidence, vision can do it,' attitude by parents and teachers at school can help

We see many times that children who are intelligent, do not act intelligently in school. But later on in life they prove successful. It takes time for them to understand that 'NO' is not defeat but there are alternates to do and get 'YES'.

Virat Kohli do not give up and gets the game move with him


Children when young, want to know all new things. They have curiosity to know the world and explore every thing. They have lot of time to go deep into the subject and understand the laws of game, for their satisfaction.

Do not fear the child- nurture him to grow

But at the same time they are scared. They scare the defeat, or bad work, and  shout of their mother at home  or teacher or their friends at school. Fear destroys intelligence. And child does not open up, speak out for his query. How child look at situation is also a problem, He will judge it differently with unanswered query and hide out in a corner or grow under the shadow of mother.

Teacher answering child curiosity

The task is to stop children of being afraid of any question and stop them think about , what others will say and get driven into fear.

Once the child grows up, he becomes director of his life. He runs away from exploration and try to fish out solutions,  with little thought. A fearful director or manufacturer, can not produce goods of quality. He finds short cuts and gets satisfied with small results, they do not have time to analyse and  bring transformation. 

President motivating child curiosity

Habit formed at early years at school and home to have vision, share views with others makes strong foundation. Child self confident in difficult time and  passion will bring him better success. Child acquiring knowledge, empowering himself for exploration, and not to be fearful are essential. This can happen, if he is grown up in right environment.

There are games which the child has to play in real life. He needs to be actor, producer, manufacturer or director and play games without fear or thinking about what others would say.


SELF LEARNING, EXPLORATION, LIFE LONG LEARNING


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